tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84857321811716371692024-02-08T08:22:08.415-08:00The Awkward Girls Guide To A Ski Seasonelleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-61719818693593298562012-01-11T10:41:00.000-08:002015-08-10T06:13:08.037-07:00When You Think You're Safe, Think Again....<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;">
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">During my time spent with the medics I also travelled over to see friends from the last season who are working again for the same company as last year. Seeing old friends? I hear you ask, how can that be awkward? Well I’ll tell you, the awkwardness lies in sleeping arrangements….</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I’ll back-track slightly; last year my chef in the chalet I worked in became a brother figure to me, we became very close due to the fact that we lived and worked together. This meant that when I went over to visit everyone from the company I didn’t even have to think where I would stay; this guy, let’s call him John, was lucky enough to have a double bed in the staff accommodation and so I was welcome to bunk up with him.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">We had a wonderful evening out, I was catching up with old friends and old bars and he was just being a seasonnaire….wonderful! Apart from my dance moves in the club the evening went off without an awkward hitch and we both went home late after dancing our socks off.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">In the middle of the night I wake up shivering, I am so so cold and confused about where I am and who I’m with. After a moments panic I realise that I’m safe and not out on the snow, all that’s happened is John next to me has stolen the entire duvet. I don’t want to be mean so I don’t yank it back from him I just decide to move closer to him and try to steal his warmth. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">And then it happened.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The horrible boy farts on me. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">You might say, that’s not awkward that’s just gross, but you’d be wrong. It’s incredibly awkward; what do you say, what do you do, how do you react in a shared room when you don’t want to wake people up? I had to do the silent freak-out involving a lot of flailing and arm movement but no actual noise. After this I had no such qualms about violently stealing the duvet back - and with a quick jab in the ribs for good measure! I lay there in bed, shivering and feeling in some way violated and yet I’m sure that cemented my friendship with John for many years to come. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The moral to this story is, when you think you’ve got through an evening with no awkward incident be careful because awkwardness can strike even in the middle of the night!</span></div>
elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-24274976112945248112011-12-29T06:25:00.000-08:002011-12-29T06:25:18.475-08:00Just smile and wave<div class="MsoNormal">Whilst out in the Alps again I was splitting my time between the medics I came on holiday with and my old friends from last season who were across the valley. I spent a couple of nights with each, and awkward moments were abundant on both sides….of course!<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">My nights with the medics were spent in a similar way to many people who go on uni trips – lots of dressing up and compulsory drinking. On my penultimate night with the medics the theme was “onesies”; for those who live under a rock a onesie is like wearing a jersey material shell suit, its completely enclosed with a long zip down the front. The problem of being completely hemmed in will become apparent later.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Onesie night went much like many others – drinking, dancing, more dancing.. etc…. (and for anyone who’s seen my dancing you know that’s an awkward moment all of its own) Later in the evening I was in the queue for the loo with a girlfriend and we decided to go into a cubicle together to save time, I watched the wall while she peed and then all swap and she watched the wall while I did the same. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Until…. she got bored and opened the door onto the whole multisex bathroom who turned to look at me, on the loo. I was wearing my onesie but of course to go to the loo it has to be pulled round by the ankles, so I was caught peeing in front of everyone in my underwear. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I have had a great many awkward moment in my life but this has to come in my top 5. I didn’t know what to do while everyone was actually pointing and laughing, it was like something out of a rubbish American high-school teen rom-com movie! And the worst part was I didn’t know what to do with myself, I certainly couldn’t stand to shut the door, so I just…… waved! Yes, I did a double handed wave and a thumbs up like an idiot. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">From this episode I have learned; never wear a onesie out unless you’re prepared to wear full clothing underneath, never trust another person in a toilet cubicle and devise a response in advance in case you’re ever caught on the loo with no clothes on!<o:p></o:p></div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-87695472235432376552011-12-27T10:44:00.000-08:002011-12-27T10:44:07.050-08:00A new season with so many more awkward opportunities!<div class="MsoNormal">I’ve decided to re-open this blog even though I’m (unfortunately) not doing another season. I am now trying to get a masters at university in London but of course I am constantly desperate to get back out to the snow! So, when in freshers week I saw an advert to go out for cheap with the university medics I jumped at the chance. I saw the medics as an economical means to an end to get back out and pretend to be a seasonnaire for another week. However, I hadn’t thought this through carefully enough… things like the 25 hour coach journey with people I didn’t know and staying in a hotel room with 3 other strangers. Awkward.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The bus was due to leave from Hammersmith at 9pm so my mother kindly drove me and parked round the corner from the drop off point in viewing distance. The awkwardness grew inside me until I couldn’t get out of the car, especially not with about 3 or 4 people I didn’t know standing there, and no bus to get on and hide! Picture the scene – my mother and I crouching and hiding in the car 100 yards away from a collection of laughing students ready to go on holiday together, as friends. We peaked over the dashboard occasionally to see if the coach had arrived and giggled awkwardly. When the bus finally did arrive the only thing I had to do was get me and my bags across the tarmac…..easier said than done. In all I had a handbag, bootbag, skibag, and suitcase also adorned with ski jacket, hat and scarf. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Things went everywhere. I had bags hanging off my arms and around my neck while I dragged myself up to the medics and they looked at me like I was a grotesque lurch character from the adams family! All in all a good introduction to how my week was to continue. The next social minefield to negotiate was where to sit on the coach. Add to this problem the fact that I get motion sick and need to be right at the front like a child; there you have me, on the first row, on my own. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">This is just a starter taster for the new few posts about my awkward week, so “stay tuned” for stories about my sleeping arrangements, being farted on and being watched on the loo….<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-91054951955927139372011-02-05T12:30:00.000-08:002011-02-05T12:30:24.697-08:00Chalet girls or half starved crazy ladies?<div class="MsoNormal">For a seasonnaire a day off is a blessing, there is nothing better than a lay in and a whole day skiing. However, my room mate and I haven’t quite mastered this technique or built up any tolerance for the night before that a whole day’s skiing is in any way feasible. The night before a day off is usually a heavy one followed by one or more of the housemates getting up at silly o’clock to “get the first lifts”, for everyone else in the flat this is torture. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Having had any potential lie in ruined and any potential boy in your bed woken up (coyote ugly anyone?) the day then gets off to a slow start. The reason for this blog entry is not to tell you my daily comings and goings of a day off but rather to tell you about this past Wednesday and the shame (/pride) that I felt. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I should tell you that as its our day off we don’t get fed in the normal manner and so all food has to be bought at bars/restaurants during the day. Add this to a horrible hangover and a medical need for saturated fats and you can see that the day has the potential to get quite expensive. I keep referring to my roommate as simply “roommate” and so for simplicity of understanding lets call her “Amy” from now on. So Amy and I came off the slope and after a few beers it was time for food but after a quick inspection of our wallets we didn’t even have enough for crisps so we followed our fellow seasonaire workers to a pub where we knew they had gone an hour ago in the hope for some free chips.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">However when we got there all the meals had been finished and out friends looked satisfied and smug! And yet there was still food hope because behind our greedy friends had just left a big group of 12 and they had also left lots of plates of food….you can see where this is going? On one table was a plate of burger and chips completely untouched and begging to be eaten. Amy and I looked surreptitiously at each other with hinting and hungry eyes and with a silent agreement we sat down, cut up the burger and devoured some strangers’ left overs! <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Half way through our (free) meal one guy at our friends table turned around and spied us and called out to us, imagine if you can two potentially pretty girls stuffed to the gills with burger and ketchup turning to the call with full mouths and guilty faces. I have never felt such immediate shame as the rest of our friends realised what was going on and turned to look at us with faces full of a mixture of pity, embarrassment and, of course, awkwardness. We both flushed bright red and were overcome by massive giggles which as you can imagine isn’t the most attractive thing when consuming a mouth full of cheese-burger! <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">If I wasn’t on a season, firstly I would never have done this and secondly if I had I wouldn’t have stopped once the cat-calls of “chav” and “pikey” started. After a few embarrassed looks to the group we continued eating and completely cleared the plate! Up till now this story may have sounded pretty shameful but after we finished the burger we managed to reach even newer lows; we started looking around at the half eaten plates on the table and asking “would it be too far to finish that pint?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Have you ever had moment in life where you almost seem to come out of your body and see yourself from a different perspective? Well, we both had one of these moments and what we saw was both shocking and disgusting, two fine young “chalet ladies” sitting in a pit of their own filth and cackling like pantomime witches. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">This brought us out of our reverie and sharply back to real life with a crash. We quickly exited the pub and ran away!<o:p></o:p></div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-88075648006298707932011-02-01T12:33:00.000-08:002011-02-01T12:33:17.262-08:00Time spent with punters<div class="MsoNormal">There is a phenomenon in ski towns where a large stigma is attached to talking with a punter if you’re a seasonaire. Even if this punter has done seasons before and <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>are now only here for one week they are therefore beneath our contempt. This being the case my room mate and I made fast friends with a group of 4 male punters who, to add insult to injury, were snowboarders as well! As you may imagine this didn’t<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>go down too well with our skiing seasonaire friends, but hey ho we had a fab week despite a few more cringe worthy moments which I will now discourse. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">We skied with these punters every day for a week and we quickly discovered that they enjoyed singing…..everywhere. Especially on lifts and even more especially to strangers. This was no louty shouting from lifts to unsuspecting skiers, this was 4 part barber-shop harmony singing! This hobby had got more and more awkward throughout the week with many bemused looks from randoms on the slopes but culminated on the last day in a 17 minute bubble-lift! Imagine the scene, you’re a little French man with your friend and you climb into a small bubble with 6 manic looking british people. After an inward groan you look decidedly out of the window and hope to pass the time without too much trouble. Now imagine the gentleman to your right starts; <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“bom bom bom bom”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And then his friends join in one by one, in harmony to the tune of the 50’s classic “Sandman”. Here I’ll point out that the awkwardness wasn’t yet upon me, I was ready for this barber shop onslaught, what I wasn’t ready for was for the French to join in as percussion! <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Suddenly the little bubble had become a little party box and we were all smiling and laughing along. Then, the tune ended and we remembered the ride was 17 minutes long and now there was a long time to wait with these strangers who were starting to look increasingly uncomfortable. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The 8 of us sat in awkward silence, no one looking at anyone, the magic had faded as quickly as it had come leaving behind a mixed feeling of shame, embarrassment and the occasional giggle. I sat there next to one of the French guys, feeling his embarrassment for letting himself go in such a manner coming off him in waves. I starting wishing the bubble would just fall straight from the cable just to stop the extended pregnant pause. We all left the bubble wishing we’d started the song a little later so as to avoid a very long and very <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>difficult journey.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The next story involving these punters didn’t so much cause me discomfort but it definitely did for them! And so intense was their awkwardness that I just had to include the story in this chronicle of awkward times. Having had a few drinks in a few different bars it got to that time where all the bars close and its time to either pay a silly price in a club or retire home. We decided to plump for the prior option and went to a French club where we had enjoyed previous nights before. On the way in we were greeted by the silky voices of the Village People followed by Gloria Gaynor. However, as it was a French club we thought nothing of it because sometimes the song choices could be a little suspect. After checking in coats we walked into the club and as I looked around I noticed a lack of girls, this is normally something I wouldn’t notice because most ski towns are very male dominated, however this wasn’t the usual 3:1 ratio like in other bars because I could only count about 4 girls on the dance floor. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>No one else had noticed yet though so I kept quiet and we went for a drink but the idea had been planted in my mind now and could not be shaken so after a while I went up to one of the guys and whispered<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“I think it might be gay night”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">This guy then very very slowly surveyed the entire club in a sweeping gaze and when his eyes returned to mine they were full of fear and shock. It was one of the most hilarious looks I had ever seen but there was definite fear written all over his face. This look spread across the group as each of them was told in turn what sort of evening we had paid to get into. I should explain that this revelation was more of a worry for one of the group then it would have been normally as he was called “gayface” by his friends and always attracted the most unwanted attention (probably because of some terribly inappropriate dancing). He had already had his bum pinched by a guy earlier in the week and had drugs slipped into his pocket, so upon hearing the news his was the most worried face among the group.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Throughout the evening us two girls were required to be “human body guards” on more than one occasion especially to the aforementioned guy who had attracted the attention of a very tall very ginger gentleman we later nicknamed “lurch”. The constant awkward glances over shoulders and self-checking to make sure their dancing wasn’t “too gay” was the highlight of the evening, however the evening was brought to a sudden end when one of the guys witnessed a three way skin-head kiss and decided that maybe we weren’t the appropriate clientele for the night. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal">So in conclusion to this awkward entry, always research what club night you are entering and make sure it is audience appropriate and only sing in a lift without strangers!!<o:p></o:p></div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-20210243271271445142011-01-04T02:17:00.000-08:002011-01-04T02:17:09.846-08:00What not to do on a season - part 1<div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Rule number one is, of course, Do Not Eat Too Much Cake. As we have been told many times, the chalet girl is front of house and so has to look “ski fit” (read – fit) </div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"> On a night out when meeting random people don’t force every ski instructor you meet to swap numbers so that they can take you out skiing. It turns out this is awkward and that no one ever calls you</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;"><span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"></span></span></span><!--[endif]--> In fact, in general don’t throw yourself at any guy, especially by saying “so when are you going to ask me out for a drink then?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span>When with guests never never never comment about the actions of the party leader to then turn around and see him standing right behind you…… very difficult to back peddle out of.</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span>Never let your hand wobble when serving food or you might end up with a difficult “salmon on head of guest” moment</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"> Never clean a toilet with your head too close to the water, Pink Eye is real and definitely not invented by Knocked-Up. If you don’t understand the awkwardness of this point, imagine trying to get close to someone but having a metaphorical label across your face saying “POO”</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;">#</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span>Do not decorate your chalet with mistletoe when your guests are all 15yr old boys.</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -18.0pt;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span></span><!--[endif]-->And finally never let a guest balance a dining chair on their chin…… no explanation needed.<o:p></o:p></div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-21924580364983736612010-12-14T04:49:00.000-08:002010-12-14T04:49:06.327-08:00A series of awkward events<div class="MsoNormal">As most awkward moments pass by fleetingly (yet stay with me for many hours after!) they don’t warrant a full post, which is why this post will be a collection of some of the smaller yet more mortifying times of the last week.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><u><br />
</u></div><div class="MsoNormal"><u>Tidying up<o:p></o:p></u></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Much of what I find awkward passes other people by, but this incident will make even the most shameless person squirm. This week I’ve had my first guests and of course when you gather a group of people together to be looked after by 2 strangers the first few conversations can be stilted and difficult. A practiced and experienced chalet girl will be able to cope and help the tea time conversation flow but a fledgling cleaner like myself will make a giant awkward tit of herself. The conversation went something like this:</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Guest – “oh so have you come to this resort before?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Me – “ yes, in fact I actually stayed with this very company that I’m working for now!”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Guest – “oh wow, what’s that like then?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Me – “well its quite weird being on the other side of the tracks, it makes me wish I’d tidied up more when I stayed!”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Guest – “….oh….what are you trying to say….”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I followed this comment with a desperate back pedal and lots and lots of apologies, I don’t think they worked….the guest in question still seems pretty awkward around me!<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><u><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">On the slopes there are two types of “looks” - cool and stylish (snowboarder) or warm and safe (badly fitting clothes and a helmet) and I definitely fall into the second category. So picture me looking like this, and lumbering along the road in my ski boots with all the grace and balance of a one legged giraffe. I had hit a particularly icy patch of road when a small and hobbitty French man approached me and started speaking fluent and scary French. I look around me in bewilderment assuming he must be talking to someone else and not the obvious tourist! However he then realises that of course the silly foreigner doesn’t speak his language and he changes to English</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“Do you feel safe on your skis?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“eerrr, yes?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“well you obviously don’t feel safe in your ski boots, and I find this strange”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And then before I could even react to his odd comment he’d walked on his way to perplex and amuse more unsuspecting English girls!<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><u><br />
</u></div><div class="MsoNormal"><u>The Wide Mouth Frog<o:p></o:p></u></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">You know those times when you tell what you think is an amazing joke but then no one else finds it funny? This happens to me quite often, for example</div><div class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“what do you call a chicken in a shell suit?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“an egg”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Yes, exactly. I can hear you NOT laughing. Well, the only thing worse than telling the awful joke is telling the joke that no one finds funny and then being asked to repeat the joke over and over because your friends think the silent reaction and your “way of telling it” is hilarious! The joke in question is the “Wide Mouth Frog Joke” I’m sure you can find it on YouTube and see how its meant to be told. The awfulness of this joke and my “way” has preceeded me and has culminated in a bar man actually asking to hear the “wide mouth frog joke” because apparently it’s so bad its good. Awkward. I just stood there and stared at him, and then swayed a little bit, and then turned a bright shade of puce.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-75886039578370154252010-12-06T02:39:00.001-08:002010-12-06T02:39:44.855-08:00Tears and tantrums<div class="MsoNormal">There’s a thin line between awkwardness and pure humiliation, I think this lies at the point where others point cease to be embarrassed and start to pity you. Today I found, and crossed this line.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">It was the first day all the staff were allowed out to ski and so lessons were arranged and groups formed. Bear in mind that although I’ve been living with all the staff for near 2 weeks I still wouldn’t feel easy enough to be a complete fool in front of them, I’m still endeavouring to make a good impression after “the face” incident. As this is the case I wanted to make a good impression with my skiing, I’m definitely not a brilliant skier but when I throw style and grace to the wind I can make it down most slopes! <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">In the morning i put on my new ski boots, did up all the fastenings and left the flat. Our flat is at the top of a very steep, very icy slope and so carrying skis, poles, helmet, goggles etc down this while wearing boots was a bit of a mission. On the way down I managed to, as only someone truly awkward can, pull all the muscles in both calves! However, I kept quiet and thought it would all go away as a group of 5 of us met the instructor and off we went up the bubble lift. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">This was where the awkwardness began, trying to keep smiling and chatting whilst also trying to hold back tears of pain was problematic and difficult. Being in a social situation when you aren’t completely mentally there is a very difficult time in the life of any awkward girl, its equal to being in an amazing conversation and wanting to stay but also desperately needing the loo more than ever before! That nagging feeling that creeps into the front of your subconscious and makes you say stupid things because you weren’t listening carefully enough. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">(side note: this happened to me once at work when I wasn’t listening carefully to the conversation held between my older and more sensible co-workers who were talking about the restaurant chain Zizi’s and one asked what the name meant and the idiot in the corner (me) shouts in the silence “PENIS” it was mortifiying!)<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Anyway, back to our story; the lift came to the top of the mountain and everyone sprang onto the snow, everyone apart from me who hobbled like a drunken cripple on ice. It was at this point where I realised the pain had become too much and I probably wasn’t going to be able to ski for fear of being stuck halfway down a mountain and not being able to move. All of a sudden while having a group picture taken it all became too much for me and I burst into sad pathetic little frozen tears. This was the point where the situation went from awkward moment to humiliatingly pathetic, my friends who had seen me swell like the elephant man the week before now saw me breakdown at the top of a lift on beautifully sunny day. I can deal with embarrassed faces of my friends and colleagues but when the looks changed to sadness and pity I shrank into my shell and started to wish for a freak avalanche <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Needless to say I put my goggles over my face (to hide my shame) and got the lift back down to the town centre. Anyway, the moral to my sad little tale is never cry at -15<span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">⁰</span>C because it burns like hell, never do all your fastenings up tight before walking down a hill and always listen carefully to your co-workers conversations!<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-37755547979670141372010-11-28T13:50:00.000-08:002010-11-28T13:50:21.972-08:00A difficult trip to the doctor<div class="MsoNormal"></div><div class="MsoNormal">We were warned by returners that the first week out in the Alps was going to be difficult but none of us were prepared for the training, early mornings, late nights, limitless alcohol and of course living away from home with a bunch of strangers! Most people muddle through this ok; evening situations are lubricated by the free vino and day time chats over a toilet bowl worked a treat to create friendships!. This would have been manageable if it wasn’t for what happened on the first morning.<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I woke up at 7 ready for a hard day’s work and feeling keen, however I was also feeling a bit odd … a bit lobsided perhaps. I thought nothing of it and kept on with my routine, it wasn’t until the make-up part of the morning with a mirror that I noticed something was wrong. The whole side of my face around my jaw and ear had swelled up into a red, puffy, lumpy mess. I looked like a mumps victim! <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was now officially the Elephant-man of the valley and we hadn’t even been there for a full 24 hours. Good start. I slunk into breakfast hiding behind my hair and tried not to show the people I hadn’t even known for a full day that I looked like a gargoyle. I sensed that i wouldn’t win any friends, just maybe a few disgusted looks and an admission into a freak show. Each day for breakfast we have a selection of cereals that all look and taste like rabbit food and are just as difficult to chew, while desperately trying to masticate my breakfast I noticed my face aching and swelling even more and so I was fairly certain that the problem was somewhere in my jaw. My medical knowledge being limited to “pills and a glass of white” meant that self diagnosis was not an option so I took a few ibuprofen and hoped it would just blow over. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">It didn’t. It just got worse, a lot worse. When you meet new people who you are going to be living and working with for the next 6 months you want to give a good first impression. I can tell you now that a girl who keeps whinging about pain and whose head looks like a balloon does not give a fantastic impression. After a few days ibuprofen wasn’t working and eating was proving difficult so a visit to the doctor was in order. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal">If you have never been in a resort before it opens to punters let me explain what its like - everything is shut. The town runs on a skeleton service of 1 bar, a small doctors and a post office. Whereas during the season there would be several English doctors and town full of pubs and clubs and lots of places to shop. Since this was the case I had to visit the French doctor, after being turned away from the pharmacy (for being too repulsively ill I suppose?). <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I can’t speak any French at all, I covered the basics at GCSE and then never looked back. I’m embarrassed to be one of those English people that are completely ignorant to other languages but seriously, if I tried to speak their language the natives would probably deport me for word-murder! I entered the surgery close to closing time so I received dirty looks from receptionists who obviously wanted an early exit, these looks of contempt swiftly changed to disgust and worry when they saw my face and listened to me trying to explain that I needed to see a doctor urgently in grunts and hand gestures. After 5 minutes of me making a very “English” knob of myself, the most handsome doctor came into reception. He was a typical tall dark man with a French accent and so I tried my best flirty and mysterious smile……….. he recoiled. The situation got worse when he told me “I talk small English” and since I talk “small” French I knew we were in for a long haul. First we had to enter in my details into his computer, a simple task you might think, but noo, it was an ordeal in itself and involved me leaning over his desk to type my name and birthday when I got frustrated with the language difficulties. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Imagine you’re a helpful and goodlooking French doctor and into your surgery lumbers a swollen sweaty girl with a red face and a distinct smell of fried food (I’d been in the kitchens all day) and then imagine her leering over the desk at you in an attempt to grab your keyboard and type things. Now you can sympathise with the poor man and truly place yourself in the awkward situation. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Next he politely asked me what was wrong (wasn’t it bloody obvious??!) and I gestured to the affected area and it was his turn to make mad hand signals. He asked questions I was expecting eg. is it a problem with your teeth/ear/gums, too much alcohol etc but he also asked some surprising questions: “do you swell because you punched in face?” My answer was a bewildered “errr….no” but now I was wondering if I looked like the sort of girl that engaged in barfights? Then he asked if I was pregnant and the interchange went something like this;<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“you maybe pregnant?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“er… what does that have to do with anything?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“you pregnant?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“no”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“you sure?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“yes”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“you definitely sure you not pregnant?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“yes I am really really sure!”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Having to go through the humiliating questioning and his reticence to believe me made me wonder why he was so adamant? I know they say chalet girls put on weight but it had only been 4 days! It was very very awkward. After that he had me up on the bed to look at my face more closely and it was all going smoothly until he suddenly jumps in the air and shouts “you wait, no move” and then runs out of the room. I didn’t know what to think, I just sat on the bed dripping slushy snow <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>everywhere and feeling abandoned but he shortly returned with latex gloves which he snapped on and then turned to me with his most charming smile and uttered the classic line;<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">“I put my fingers in your mouf?”<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">And that was the moment I underwent the single most awkward moment of my trip so far. I lay prone on the bed with my “mouf” wide open, breathing garlic breath at him while he had both hands in my mouth pushing around. To use an overused phrase – I wish the ground had swallowed me up! Shortly after that harrowing experience he managed to work out I had an infection in my jaw (at least that’s what I think he said) and the prescription was settled no problem. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">A word for the more cautious and awkward among you, if you are in a foreign land with a painful yet not life threatening illness, wait for the English doctor. You won’t have a funny story at the end of the experience but you will still have your dignity intact!<o:p></o:p></div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8485732181171637169.post-10717742851440843362010-11-28T09:43:00.000-08:002010-11-28T09:49:04.784-08:00An introduction to awkwardness<div class="MsoNormal">Hello, my name is Laura and I am an awkward person. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">You see, most of the general public seem to be able to swan through life without being too aware that each individual moment has the potential create a situation where you want to curl up and die and then be swallowed into the earth. I am not one of those people. This may sound a tad melodramatic but I’m sure everyone has had at least one moment in life where they’ve done or said something inappropriate, been caught and then felt a mixture of burning shame and embarrassment. Due to an assortment of social ineptitude, tactlessness and a loud voice this seems to happen to me more than most. After years of confusion I am now aware of my affliction and so I’m always on the lookout for life’s awkward moments and when I’m not watching for them I usually find myself slap bang in the middle of one! <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">These moments usually go like this - the awkward comment/action is committed and noticed by everyone but me…..silence……. then realisation followed by sweating, panicking and finished with a swift back-pedal which, 9 times out of 10, makes the situation worse. Then finally I go and hide somewhere to carry out the awkward dance. The awkward dance is a special action in the life of any socially strained person, it usually involves limb flailing, curling into a ball while standing and then wiggling – it sounds like hard work but it is the only thing which makes me feel a little better and releases the tension from the previous ordeal. So now that you understand the outcomes of my day to day interactions, can you follow my logic in applying for a job abroad in the tourism and service industry!? <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I understand I am not the only person who feels this way, I’m sure across the globe there are a few lonely soles hiding in toilets and cupboards doing their own awkward dances. This blog is for those people, as a guide to surviving a ski season without spontaneously combusting from awkwardness and as a way of keeping friends and family updated on my daily humiliations. <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">I am currently out in a popular resort in the French Alps working for a mid-sized company and doing a chalet-host job which involves being the public face of the chalet, dealing with the guests and a hell of a lot of cleaning! I’ve only been out a week so far but if you think this is too short a time for some serious awkward moments then you truly don’t understand the life of a SAP (socially awkward person) So here, l’ll show you what I mean.</div>elleteahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00426272234491224049noreply@blogger.com0